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Soulmates My Ass
How to Love a Hero and Leave a Zero

Soulmates My Ass

About the Book

Until the baby boomer generation, every home had exactly the same relationship—men went to work and women stayed home and cared for the children. This cookie-cutter existence made adult relationships simple—kids learned their future role by watching their parents. No assembly was ever required.

But baby boomers obliterated the cookie-cutter! They took a two thousand year standard and morphed it into a psychedelic nightmare—every home now has a different relationship model— most of which don’t work. What people thought they had learned by watching their parents has been tossed out like the proverbial baby with the bathwater.

SOULMATES MY ASS will teach you how to make your partner a better person every single day, and how to be their hero, not their zero.

How to Love a Hero and Leave a Zero

Soulmates My Ass is filled with life lessons on how to be and how to be with a hero, and not a zero

  • Heroes make you happy; zeroes make you depressed.
  • Heroes connect with you; zeroes annoy you.
  • Heroes are thoughtful; zeroes are selfish.
  • Heroes are best friends; zeroes are horrid friends.
  • Heroes want to be with you; zeroes can’t wait to get away from you.
  • Heroes are strongest when times are tough; zeroes are nowhere to be found.
  • Heroes will wait a lifetime for you; zeroeswon’t wait ten minutes.
  • Heroes help you grow; zeroes beat you down.

Of course, you want to be with a Hero and not a Zero.  But do you know how to spot a Hero?   Do you know how to help your partner become a Hero?  Do you know how to be a Hero and not a Zero?  

Soulmates My Ass will teach you how to be your partner's Hero and how to help your partner become your Hero. 

Soulmates My Ass will show you how to date, love, fight, trust, and communicate.  It will show you how to be a Man's Man or Everyone's Woman, how to handle money issues, how to be with someone older (or younger), how to survive after the lust has gone, and when to run away.  Soulmates My Asswill show you how relationships have changed, and what you and your partner need to do to handle those changes.​
Whether you are in a happy relationship, troubled relationship, or not in a relationship at all, Soulmates My Ass is for you.

Reviews

"Great title. Great conversation."

I love the title! Clearly it was enough to catch my attention. And, who of us has not had that very same thought - for ourselves or others? Fortunately, the conversation inside did not disappoint. It was like sitting with your best friends over a glass (or glasses) of wine and sharing the realities of life and love. 


"Enjoyed their insight and positive suggestions."

There are many good tips that are easy to incorporate into your life that can make a huge impact on your relationship. It is very refreshing to read about a great marriage. And of course the catchy title reels you in!


"They are the real deal."

There are many good tips that are easy to incorporate into your life that can make a huge impact on your relationship. It is very refreshing to read about a great marriage. And of course the catchy title reels you in!


"Two Thumbs Up!!!"

What a wonderful book of life lessons and relationship advice! From what to look for, what to run away from and what to work on. Would highly recommend this book to anyone!

About Us

Authors Victor & Gayle Treutel

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Our relationship has grown stronger through life's turmoil, including: cancer, step-children, demanding careers, recessions, dumbass bosses, unemployment, money issues, and an evil homeowner's association. We are each other’s heroes and make each other better people every single day. SOULMATES MY ASS is our guide to how you too can accomplish relationship magic.

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